Interpersonal violence (IPV) or abuse can happen to anyone regardless of gender, background or age. Abuse is often the result of someone trying to gain power over another person. It can take the form of controlling what the other person says, how they act or feel.
Survivors are never responsible for acts of violence or abuse used against them.
Abuse may not always be visible. If someone says they are experiencing abuse, believe them.
Abuse is not always physical. It may take many different forms including:
When someone is abusive it is about power and control. It is not about love.
There is a role for bystanders to play in stopping the cycle of interpersonal violence. A bystander can be family, friends, or people witnessing abusive behaviours in public.
It is normal to be nervous to speak up in public, but it can make a difference in someone’s life.
Speaking up when it is safe can help survivors and may prevent future abuse.
Free online training for supporting a loved one experiencing interpersonal violence (IPV) is available through the Provincial Association of Transition Houses and Services Saskatchewan (PATHS).
If you or someone you know is experiencing violence or abuse, speak up if it is safe to do so